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Lee Thayer

Very astute, Steve. I like this engaging approach. And you're spot on about the "Us" vs. "Them" thing. But I'm thinking, after 45 years in the trenches with CEOs (etc.), that our cultural biases may be leading us in the wrong direction. What comes to mind is that those who are striving to be virtuosos at what they do are very receptive to change and personal improvement. So maybe what we call "resistance" to change may be better thought of as a threat to the status quo. Not many people are lifelong learners. or even want to be. So the issue may be that of who owns what problem. Next image: Two people who are both incompetent and self-satisfied won't produce much as a result of teaming up. Then there's change itself - more of a modern mantra than a useful concept. Change WHAT? Patton's method changed people - for the better (the attrition rate in Patton's armies was the lowest with the greatest exposure). He didn't do that by engaging draftees in what they thought the method should be. Ever tried asking people if they want to change themselves in any significant way? Whatever their verbal answer, doesn't it seem to you that most people are incompetent to change themselves, so they get together to change the world to better suit them? Is that "change"?

David Zinger

Steve:
You really hit the target with this one. No, I guess you really included the target and stopped calling people targets. I think what sometimes is seen as resistance is better explained as "the gravity of the familiar." The familiar has a strong pull on us.
David

Steve Roesler

David,

What a useful phrase: "The gravity of the familiar". It sounds as if you and Lee are thinking along the same lines with this one, eh?

Steve Roesler

Hello, Lee,

Well, you won't get much of an argument from me on the status quo thing, for sure. My observation is that "resistance" is more of a fight to stay in one's comfort zone than a fight with the the sensibility of whatever the improvement happens to be.

Your remark about most people *not* being lifelong learners is also a shared observation, with one distinction: the same people who aren't lifelong learners at their workplace may very well spend several hours a week perfecting their bowling game or researching the ideal lawn fertilizer. And of course there are many others who are content watching I Love Lucy re-runs and waxing poetic about the good old days in which they also chose not to participate.

As for the Patton/Directive/changing one's self combo: coming up in a future post.

Thanks for the thoughtful and provocative addition to the topic.

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