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peter vajda

Hi Steve,

a quickie...

I'm ever curious about folks who complain that they feel forever tethered to their electronics and say they want "time off" and then sign off on messages with "from my blackberry" or "from my mobile..." both of which communicate, "Hey, I'm here 24/7, 365."

Dis-harmony and im-balance occur when there's a disconnect between what one thinks, says, feels and does.

Can't have it both ways.

Steve Roesler

Peter,

Indeed.

Gee, maybe I should start responding to comments with Thank You notes and postage:-)

Wally Bock

One thing to be wary of is what I call the "Look, buddy" moment. In Phil's situation, the frustration with reporting yet again what's going on while wanting to be doing instead of talking builds slowly. Then, one day, Phil or the Phil-equivalent will reach the breaking point, turn on his tormentor and say "Look …" This is often ineffective communication and dangerous to boot.

Better to plan how you share your thoughts about workload, availability, the abundance of meetings and the over-abundance of reports.

Rodney Johnson

Steve, there are so many opportunities to improve the situation or make it worse. Here are a couple of my thoughts.

1. Manage expectations - if you don't establish expectations, they will create them for you.

2. Delegate - too often business leaders in essence become business managers - they must get back to the act of leading, which means delegating some of their workload.

3. Most people in this situation are their own worst enemy. I wonder if in Phil's situation if he didn't covet and shine in the constant meeting scenario for a while. But then there was a breaking point where Phil the meeting energizer bunny became deenergized.

These are just a few of my thoughts...

Steve Roesler

Wally,

I'm taking bets that your prediction will come true, with "terminal" results. Will keep you posted.

Steve Roesler

Rodney,

Thanks for adding those practical suggestions to the mix.

Actually, as for #3, here's what has happened:

a. There was a time when the spotlight was just fine

b. He got a new boss. The nature of the spotlight changed. Now, he is subject to increased questioning re: the "why's" of his actions vs. "let us know how that works out."

Fearless forecast: won't work out over the long run.

Mile High Pixie

Steve, my intern and I are experiencing this on a project right now. Our boss keeps telling us that because of the economy "things have changed" and we must do more with less, be careful how we use our time, etc. However, he has not changed his micromanaging habit, the one where he "has" to review every email I send out to the design team before it's ready to be sent, the one where he marks up drawings four and five times before we can send updated drawings to the engineers. It appears that he's so focused on the "juuuuust right" and "perfect!" part of our work that he's unable to see that his above-and-beyond standards are causing us to spend time and fee that we don't have on the project. In response, my intern and I have begun standing up to his demands (I know! and in *this* economy!) and clearly, bluntly saying, "what you're asking us to do takes three days--we have a solution that only requires one day and gets you the same results, and *that's* what we're doing." We're having to save him from himself, and it would appear that he may even grudgingly appreciate it. By not letting him get caught up in doing the work that *we're* supposed to do, he can spend more time on the parts of the business that we really need him for, such as overall design and project review and the ever-important getting of more work.

Steve Roesler

MHP:

That's a powerful real-life example. And, the way you are approaching it shows wisdom.

While you are saving him from himself, you are also saving yourself from him.

dsi r4

Making your own business is so good thinking.But you have to make clear about lots of tips and tricks for gating more business.You have to know more about oponents as well as also making popularity among the people.

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