"Fitting in" is a big deal, and in many organizations it's seen as the way to career longevity.
People are influenced by those they see as being "ahead of them." If you simply match the rest of the workforce and blend in, your influence is diminished. Eventually, you become invisible.
If you want to lead, be willing to raise your personal standards to exceed the common expectations of your organization or work group. "Raising" equates with "elevating." Once you raise the bar for yourself, you begin to view things from a heightened position that expands your perspective. When that happens, you're able to see and describe a greater vision for those around you.
What can you start doing now to raise your standards and impact your ability to lead?
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"What can you start doing now to raise your standards and impact your ability to lead?"
Take time for considered reflection and introspection on your self-worth...obsessing with "fitting in" forces one to focus on their "packaging" and diminishes their inner value and worth...
Posted by: peter vajda | February 08, 2010 at 08:56 AM
I strongly believe that leaders are made, not born. Even more importantly, leaders are more self made, rather than by external means. Someone that is on the path to becoming a leader has personal standards and expectations that do exceed others. I also feel that in order to be a successful leader, one must be driven and at the same time selfless. These days there seems to be a multitude of individuals in our workplaces that are driven, driven to compete and to perform well, but very few are driven to be leaders. What’s even more, is that there are far too few people that are driven to be great leaders. Anyone that holds high personal expectations that exceed others can climb into the driver seat and command a ship, but those that climb into the driver seat that not only hold high self expectations, but are consistent with their actions, lead by example, provide inspiration, emotional self control, open to new ideas, provide praise and positive feedback, rather than negative feedback, and show an interest in the people that work for them rather than focus on themselves or their own interests will have the ability to earn the respect as great leader.
People are influenced by those that are ahead of them and may strive to become a leader. But I think that it is even more important to strive to become more. Don’t settle on being just a leader, strive to become a great leader, and to become a great leader it takes more than just raising your personal bar.
Posted by: Travis Branzell | February 08, 2010 at 01:47 PM
Peter,
In this age of "You, Inc.", I'm struck by your allusion to the inverse relationship between "packaging" and self-worth.
That should cause some introspection.
Posted by: Steve Roesler | February 08, 2010 at 01:48 PM
Love the idea of challenging yourself first. I do think that matters--and in ways deeper than just "walking the walk".
Posted by: Jason Wilton | February 24, 2010 at 05:25 PM